Friday 6 November 2015

If you are going through a tough,very difficult time,than this is for you:



Sometimes life just literally "hit us". Knocks us down. You find yourself in situations that gives you pain in your stomach every morning before you even open your eyes,your head is filled with worries and fears that makes you have terrible headaches and makes your heart beat so fast. You feel so tensed,scared,anxious,frustrated. You regret so much. "If I was smarter...If I only knew...If I only didn't..." - thoughts that are breaking your head apart.

How do I know?
Been there darling

But let me share what I learnt from from my very own life experience: 

1) There is no problem without a solution.

Look back at your life for a second. Older you are,more challenging situations you have faced. And guess what? All the problems you ever had and all the issues you lost your sleep over,ALWAYS,somehow,got sorted out. Ain't that so? There is no problem that ever stayed a problem for too long. In nature of "problems" is to get fixed. And they always do,to the point that you even forgot most of the issues you been through and dealt with,feeling like the current situation you are facing is the worst ever. Nah... You been there done that. It only gets better babe!

2) Everything happens in your favor!

Whatever you are going through,it shall be in your favor. Forget regrets and complains. This information needs to make you relax a bit. Smile. Whatever you are dealing with, It will only benefit you at the end of the day. God has His ways to bring you to your treasure. He is taking you shortcuts and these roads are normally quite bumpy. You are there for a good reason! Hold on tight,smile and say Thank You! You almost there. You will be so grateful for everything that is happening right now. 

3) Don't do regrets!

The most useless something you can do in this life is to regret. It won't bring you nowhere,it won't fix anything and it won't let you grow and progress because it will keep you stuck. As I already told you,everything is happening for a grate reason. Every experience you earned is like an self-investment. It shapes you,builds you,makes you stronger,wiser,sharper. All in your favor! Be proud of yourself instead!

4) You still have so many things to be grateful for!

Remember them. Don't let alllllll your blessings fade in your mind because of one thing that is bothering you at the moment. That's kind of rude and unfair of you,don't you think? Look around you! Look at yourself! Even in your darkest moment ,you still have so many things people daily pray for. You are one blessed soul!!



7 comments:

  1. Thanks....just what I need right now. "I still have so many things to be grateful for"

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  2. this is what i needed to get me back on track..thanks Sonia for the wonderful messages

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  3. Great piece darling! Always inspirational. No room for negativity. Loads of love from Kenya :)

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  4. You are one blessed soul:) Thanks a lot!

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  5. You are one blessed soul:) Thanks a lot!

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  6. This is some kind of motivation. Really, this made me think less of my worries. Thank you Sonia for your everyday motivational dose.

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  7. All true but a great reminder and very well put down...God indeed always has a plan for us
    And girl there are many blessings to count

    It's just human I guess (or may be I don't really know) why we sometimes breakdown even knowing that God has got it covered

    Going through the worst time of my life BUT ai believe there is a light at the end of the tunnel

    Have been through hard times and came out stronger so I believe this too shall pass

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