Should I try and fix things up or should I let it go?How many times you've wandered? Such a tricky doubt. Especially when you question your genuine happiness,positivity and joy. How do you feel like? Exhausted? You just want it to be over.
But then, you don't wanna give up. You want to try and make things work. Yes,you are not a quitter! Some strong emotions are involved.. Yeah.. Maybe it's just a testing time you two must pass to understand each other better and love stronger...Or ...Maybe is just a sign you should move on.
During our lifetime,God send us different kinda of signs all through our journey. To lead us and direct us. According this signs we move,change and follow the path that is meant to bring us somewhere we need to be for a purpose. But not all the signs we receive from Him are pleasant. Some are quite painful. This signs are humans and situations with humans around us. No doubt- all of them are in our lives for a reason,but when some become a source of pain,frustration and helplessness,then maybe that's the sign we should let go. Meaning: the person fulfilled purpose he/she had in your life and he/she is no longer needed to stay there.
To move to another level,you have to learn to let go.
Clearly,this doesn't mean you should walk away from everybody you have an issue with. There is no relationship in this world (not even with your own mother) that will be smooth and problems-free. Even with your soulmate. We argue,we hurt we,get hurt..And that's absolutely normal. We learn,we compromise and we love to overcome all the issues we face.
So how do you know when to let go?
Their place is not in your life when they no longer add into any form of your growth -weather personal,spiritual,emotional or professional. Instead ,they just take from you- your positive energy,your joy ,happiness and smiles. Constantly.
Again ,that doesn't mean that they are bad people and that you should hate them. Don't even blame them. Thank them.They been useful-they taught you what was needed for you to learn. Be grateful for that. But you need something different now.
There is nothing dramatic about letting go. Try and see it as an necessary and needed part of progress. Nobody died. No need for hard feelings.
Note to yourself: the best is yet to come.
Isn't that enough reason for you to smile and get excited again?