Wednesday 10 February 2016

How Do You Know When To Let It Go?

Should I try and fix things up or should I let it go?How many times you've wandered? Such a tricky doubt. Especially when you question your genuine happiness,positivity and joy. How do you feel like? Exhausted? You just want it to be over.

But then, you don't wanna give up. You want to try and make things work. Yes,you are not a quitter! Some strong emotions are involved.. Yeah.. Maybe it's just a testing time you two must pass to understand each other better and love stronger...Or ...Maybe is just a sign you should move on.

During our lifetime,God send us different kinda of signs all through our journey. To lead us and direct us. According this signs we move,change and follow the path that is meant to bring us somewhere we need to be for a purpose. But not all the signs we receive from Him are pleasant. Some are quite painful. This signs are humans and situations with humans around us. No doubt- all of them are in our lives for a reason,but when some become a source of pain,frustration and helplessness,then maybe that's the sign we should let go. Meaning: the person fulfilled purpose he/she had in your life and he/she is no longer needed to stay there.

To move to another level,you have to learn to let go.

Clearly,this doesn't mean you should walk away from everybody you have an issue with. There is no relationship in this world (not even with your own mother) that will be smooth and problems-free. Even with your soulmate. We argue,we hurt we,get hurt..And that's absolutely normal. We learn,we compromise and we love to overcome all the issues we face.

So how do you know when to let go?
Their place is not in your life when they no longer add into any form of your growth -weather personal,spiritual,emotional or professional. Instead ,they just take from you- your positive energy,your joy ,happiness and smiles. Constantly.

Again ,that doesn't mean that they are bad people and that you should hate them. Don't even blame them. Thank them.They been useful-they taught you what was needed for you to learn. Be grateful for that. But you need something different now.

Something better.

There is nothing dramatic about letting go. Try and see it as an necessary and needed part of progress. Nobody died.  No need for hard feelings.

Note to yourself: the best is yet to come.
Isn't that enough reason for you to smile and get excited again?

15 comments:

  1. Sigh,,, so true , sometimes in life we hold on to things hoping it will work, hoping they might change , hoping till you get exhausted , and the society is not helping especially peeps from Africa , we get judged we get criticized when we let things go or when we want change , nice one @sonia keep up the good work

    -tolaexpensive

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  2. Sonia... you have no idea how much this means to me at this point in my life... thank you ljubavi... hvala puno

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  3. Sometimes it is very hard to recognize the right moment to escape... Isnt it?

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    1. And sometimes it's hard to let go in as much as you want to

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    2. That's Tru buh then we have to try to learn go expecially wen the other party already moved on

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  4. Sometimes it is very hard to recognize the right moment to escape... Isnt it?

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  5. Thank you for this Sonia.You wrote this out as if you read ma mind.May GOD keep guiding and helping you to keep touching lives as you do.

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  6. Thank you for this Sonia.You wrote this out as if you read ma mind.May GOD keep guiding and helping you to keep touching lives as you do.

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    1. Amen !
      I'm glad that I have ability to be there for you! Xx

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  7. really nid your advice, iv bin in diz relationship for 4yrs but we'v bin friends for 6yrs, i love diz guy so much,tho iv hurt him sumtimes in the past and he love me too which i knw deep down, lately our relationship has been rocky and now he wants a break up but i dnt wanna lose him nd i feel i shud fight for us, cus i believe in us but i dnt knw wat to do.

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    1. Have you tried knowing whats going on with him? Why the sudden change and why he wants the breakup? When was the last gym u guys had an heart to heart conversation instead of u letting go? Have u tot about what you are doing wrong to d sudden change? The key to a successful (not perfect) relationship is communication and trust. I hope this helped.

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