Aren't you afraid of unhealthy,unhappy marriage? What of divorce?

People often act like marriage is the last stop and the end of one huge journey. Finally married. Done deal. Ok ,nice,congrats! You are finally settled! But.. What now? You have to realize that it's not the end but a beginning of one new,totally unknown chapter of your life. 

Sharing life with somebody could be a beautiful thing but truth to be told,it's not going to be easy all the time. It wasn't easy sharing a roof even with your parents despite the fact they love you unconditionally and you know them since forever. 

Imagine now which kind of wisdom,patience,compromise,love and good will you need to create a peaceful home with your partner.

We often can't wait to find the "right one" and  get married ,but aren't you afraid of unhappy marriage that is source of pain and frustration instead love,peace and joy? Before you know,people are getting divorced and you are there wandering why? What is wrong with our generation? 

The truth is,the idea of marriage is always there,in our heads,but a lot of us still don't  have a clear idea of what marriage really suppose to be about. What is the real purpose and meaning of it ?

Is it ticket to a better life? Must I marry because I am just feeling so awkward being single in this my "old" age? Or is it because I want to prove my friends that yes,I am also getting married. Is it a sort of a business contract for you? Or a way to escape from loneliness and desperation? You are "not getting any younger" and you want to hush annoying family that is being on your case for too damn long?

The key of happy marriage is in setting your criteria right while choosing your life partner,but today's society and twisted values it brainwashes us with helps us create a completely wrong perception of what we think we need and look for when it comes to union between two people and we are leaded by wrong criteria and that is exactly the reason why today a lot of people are stuck in unhealthy marriages that have been nothing more than source of suffering and frustrations. 

In next few posts we will discuss the most common mistakes we make while setting our criteria we use to help us choose our life partners and help you predict problems and life situations they can bring you in! Keep up!