Can marriage be escape from loneliness?

Now back to the matter. We was discussing the most common wrong criteria people use to choose a life partners.

Loneliness. Nobody likes loneliness. Such an empty,sad feeling. Sometimes (often) goes hand to hand with depression. It can affect our self confidence and make us feel that the reason we are alone is because we are not good or worthy enough to keep people in our lives.

Gradually desperation takes over our lives to the point we are ready to go to the Moon and back for anyone who throw us even a tiny little piece of attention,setting our standards so low since we are in constant fear that person could just get up and walk away from our lives and leave us all alone. Again. 

Settling for a life with somebody for the sake of escaping from loneliness  is the biggest mistake you can do. No matter how logical it seems ,no relationship with other person will benefited you now. The problem is solvable only between you and yourself,so the only relationship you should focus on at this moment is the one with that beautiful person you see in the mirror.

Learn to be happy alone. It's everyday's practice of self love and self understanding. All this things you crave to hear/see from another person: sweet talks,surprises,compliments-dare to do it yourself for yourself! At some point you will get where you want to be and it will be so worth it-you will feel so good and you will understand that you already have all it takes for happiness and inner peace. 

Once you get there,your standards will (logically) get way higher and you will be way more selective about who you let come close to your precious self and it will bring you the wisdom to understand that not everyone deserves the best of you.

It will work in your favor because once you learn how to create happiness in your life by yourself,you won't settle for anything less from anyone else who enters into your life. 

"Add into my happiness or I don't need you. If I am a creator of my happiness,you simply can't be the reason why I am unhappy. It won't be tolerated".