The biggest mistake (you are not even aware of !!) that is breaking your home apart

Your life and your relationship with others (especially people you share  your life with) will change when you stop acting like people around you are obliged to do certain things and learn how to see each action your loved ones take towards you as an act of a GOOD WILL.

Expectations in relationships are forced on us by society and they make us take for granted most of the things our partner does (Example: Your wife made you a dinner- I mean,of course she did,that's her job as a wife,it would be very wrong if she didn't).

Well guess what- it's not a must. It was her good will. Her choice to make you happy by cooking you a wonderful meal. She loves you and she cares. But nobody has an obligation to do anything.

Start appreciating every little thing person you love is doing for you,from the glass of water she/he brought you when you complained you were thirsty,to the cleaned and ironed clothes waiting for you in your closet,hard work because he/she wants the best for his/hers family,every kiss ,touch,a compliment or hug.

If you expect all this things from your partner like they owe it to you (no matter how hard society makes us feel like they do),the truth is-you will never be happy,nether your man/woman/even kids will,and you will not get to enjoy peaceful,healthy and joyful relationships with people that actually means world to you,and by the time y'all turn into a cold strangers living under the same roof,you will wander what actually went wrong. 

Nobody owes you anything,nether you do. It's all love and care, good will and EFFORT! 

Appreciation and graduate will help you keep your home the happiest place on earth.