Believe it or not I had this kind of attitude towards marriage for so long. In fact I hated institution of marriage,I thought there is absolutely not need for it. What I saw from my parent's example got me concluded that marriage is pretty much an institution that turns women in maids (free of charge oh,no salary at the end of a month!) and men don't even show any excitement or gratitude in return (well,that's the way it should be huh?).
On top if all this ,they will ask you "Will he marry you?" like two people can get married only when man decides so. Wait a minute! What the heck! Will I marry him!? What If I don't want to marry him? What if I just wanna have fun? Why do some societies makes it seem like man do woman a favor if HE decides to marry her. Are all women in this world sitting somewhere waiting to get married?? So annoying. It's the same way I could not understand women that are desperate to get married. For what? I had feeling like we give/sacrifice so much (naturally) by getting involved in marriage that we should never be desperate for it. In fact we suppose to be someone's blessing. Yes we need to be deserved! They need to prove us they worth our time! We need to be Appreciated! Not to settle for less. Definitely NOT to act desperate!
Lol see bitter attitude I had towards marriage. Serious matter oooh! didn't really plan it for myself...
But then...........
One Igbo man entered my life and decided to use some special jazz on me ;)
But soon I will tell you which kind of wahala he had to pass through until I changed my mind.
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Super thrilling, there is nothing beautiful or handsome about the truth.God bless u Sonia, much luv from Nigeria
ReplyDeleteAmazing blog you've got! Something positive finally.
ReplyDeleteInteresting story! Amazing blog
ReplyDeletePatiently waiting for part 2 of the story Sonia
ReplyDeleteCant wait to get the next part of this story.Sonia you are something else.so inspiring.
ReplyDeleteCant wait to get the next part of this story.Sonia you are something else.so inspiring.
ReplyDeleteAm scared of marriage o seriously lolz
ReplyDeleteWaiting for the rest of the story lol.....I love love life ehn
ReplyDeleteWaiting,make it quick Mrs.O
ReplyDeleteNice write up..this will inspire a lot of pple
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ReplyDeleteMarriage can be scary, but beautiful still!! Nice post.
ReplyDeleteLol. I can't wait to read about the wahala he had to pass through 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteLol. I can't wait to read about the wahala he had to pass through 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAm learning each time I read something from u.... Weldone maam
ReplyDeleteI always learn something from your right ups.... U r loved maam
ReplyDeleteI always learn something from your right ups.... U r loved maam
ReplyDeleteMrs O, I need to read about the wahala o. Waiting eagerly
ReplyDeleteMrs O, I need to read about the wahala o. Waiting eagerly
ReplyDeleteO gawd! I love this one. So tell more. I love this blog already.
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