When does she needs you the most?

I used to be free like a bird. My nature is wild,stubborn and spontaneous. You could hardly find me at the same spot twice.I am extremely outgoing person,I feel like I am suffocating if I stay indoors for too long. I was here and there. Happened to me that I left my house with an idea of going for a drink and I ended up in another country. That spontaneous. Well,we are all different and what gives our being a purpose is that unique nature we poses. This is mine.

But then - boom! 

You become a mom.

Literally over night your life changes totally and completely. I can't lie,it's the most beautiful feeling ever and having a chance to feel such an unconditional,pure love is a purpose of our existence. 

But with type of person I am,changing a lifestyle wasn't easy at all!I got to understand that,doesn't matter how supportive or carrying your partner is,the fact is his life is not going to change as close as your own and I constantly have feeling like I am being owned!

 I love my son more than anything in the world,but its very hard for me to adapt,most of all to get used to limited movements . I have been thought depression,frustration and at some point I felt so helpless and bitter.

Sometimes I have feeling like there is nobody to understand me. I was so disappointed when I realized that people expect you to adapt instantly like its not a big deal  on the fact that you are not living life for yourself anymore and even though sacrifices we all (women) make is natural and necessary, people around us need to understand that it could be painful and frustrating process. If you dare to complain you are already labeled as selfish wicked witch.

Role of a mother turns woman in the strongest being on planet earth,and at the same time creates the most vulnerable creature ever. 

At this point of our lives there can never be enough of Love,Attention,Appreciation   and Understanding. We are starving for it,and its all natural. You are not alone.

So fellas...... Listen up...

There is no time for excuses. Don't take her sacrifices for granted! It won't be easy all the time,women can be difficult (I knowww) ,but if there is a time when your woman is going to needs you,it's definitely that part of her life.

Be there. One kiss,strong hug,little surprise and words of love and appreciation (regularly,don't be stingy with your love!lol) can remove so much pain,don't you know?